Newly wed couples- this is for YOU----Gender Selection - Baby Boy or Baby Girl? Here is the suggestion.

Started by Suniljitto, April 03, 2010, 11:49:37 AM

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For the benefit of the Newly married couples (Hi Newlywed couples - congratulations!) I post this article, so that they get a better \"Progeny\" called Mahendram.  Prayer is the most effective one, one can safely state. Still the Newlywed couples needs some guidance in many ways that will brighten & shine in their life. Here goes: Now you can plan and chose the GENDER of your baby Boy or Girl
For A Happy married life and to gain full mental peace and also to create a new Healthy generation aye give below few suggestions. I am sure, if strictly adhered to these, every follower would surely benefit a lot more and enjoy a full life span with developed mental happiness.
To know and to follow these, you must keep handy a panchangam known as Almanac so that you can easily identify the dates suitable to your birth stars and moon sign.

To begin with, know your and your life partner\'s birth star and moon sign. The astrological calculations and planetary movements are to maximum extent help one to conceive. You can find it in your horoscope, or you can simply check with any online website that give these basic things at free of charge. You need to give/feed your correct time, date of birth and place of birth to get the accurate birth star and moon sign.
Avoid any new ventures on any of your birth star days. On these days you will be a bit of tense and the body level pressure is likely to be fluctuating than normal days.

Avoid all important decision makings on the Chandraashtama days i.e. when moon transits through the eighth house to your moon sign. These days are very bad, especially people born on the Krishna Paksha i.e. after full moon day but before New moon day,
For every married couple, who are planning to have a child, the aforesaid stars, thithi and Chandraashtama applies more so if one intends to go for a child. In addition to above days they will have to avoid Bharani and Krittika nakshatra days too. If the couple can avoid all above dates/days, they will get hardly six to eight days left in a month to have physical relationship among husband & wife. Added to these 3 to 5 days gone - whence the natural monthly cycle period passes.
When then one gets the opportune time to plan and get their issues/child, a better progeny that they can be proud of? Is there any suitable days recommended, especially for newly wedded couples? What if they enjoy life as they wish & like?
Given below the negative aspect in the first place. So that one can understand the importance of Thithi & Nakshatra (birth Star known as constellation) and find out a solution to fit there needs!
**A woman conceiving on a Amavasya (new moon day) or Pradamai (the immediate second day from new moon/or of a full moon day thithis, delivers a spastic/under developed child or mentally unsound child.
**Women who conceive on her Chandraashtama day delivers a child who will be weak, suffers frequent ailments and illness and suffers with memory loss in the young age it self.
** If conceived on the Ashtami or Navami thithis, then the child likely to grow with some arrogance, aggressive tendency and never learns to adjust to the surroundings/situations.
** If Amavasya day also happens to be the Chandraashtama day for women who conceived on that day, and if Surya Dasha/Buktis too runs then, the child born will, mostly probably be blind or with defective eye sight.
** In addition a couple has to avoid having sex, a day when the husband goes for hair cutting (this is to avoid barber itch - related deceases), when one takes oil bath (to avoid body over heating) and when any of them suffering from dysentery (to maintain normal kidney functioning).
** Also one has to avoid sex on the day when any one of them goes on fasting, feeling headache, or any other urinary infections.
** If a couple can avoid having sex on the aforesaid days and follows strictly and plans for a child, the conceiving probability will be high on the other days, thus giving birth to a good and healthy baby.

** The timing for this should be chosen between 3 and 5 AM on any suitable day. By this timing, food consumed earlier night is almost digested and the early morning freshness in the air/ozone layer is rekindling one\'s body and mind. This timing called as \"Brahma Muhurtham\" in the Vedic scripts.
Based on the Jaathaga Paarijaatham, an Indian Vedic script describing the astrological points and methodology, for a Progeny to honor,  I reproduce the options on conceiving a child/Gender selection. Readers will note the points and plan accordingly. It is generally and medically not advisable to have sex on the menses periods of a woman. From the time of menses, five full days to be avoided for relationship. If by any chance a woman conceives on these days, then the child is born with abnormalities and short-lived one.  Desirable results can be obtained by following the information, according to ones needs. It is almost a kind of natural cycle that enriches the Gender Selection of your choice. This way of calculations is still widely followed in Southern part of India and particularly from Kerala. To any woman, to conceive is a GIFT and those are the one who are blessed by the God.

Day 06  =  A boy who preserves his traditions and values.

Day 07  =  A girl born with private organ defects or impotency.

Day 08  =  A boy born with manly organ defects or impotency.

Day 09  =  A blessed girl with beauty and brain.

Day 10  =  A healthy and sound boy.

Day 11  =  An Ugly girl with uneven shape and odd look.

Day 12  =  A boy with knowledge, wisdom and kind.

Day 13  =  A characterless girl with sinful acts.

Day 14  =  A boy with noble character and wisdom.

Day 15  =  A beautiful girl with good and generous qualities

Day 16  =  A boy with good qualities of a scholar, learned and practical.

You will notice, from the day of menses first five days are to be avoided from start of menses day and again days 7, 8, 11 and 13th days for having physical relationship. To conceive an healthy and fittest child, this calculations to be kept in mind. From days 17th to next menses course, it is called safe period whence the chances of conceiving are remote. (days to be Counted from first day of menses - starting day as day one and so on).

Human body in itself is a mystery!  No one can say for sure that one has  fully control and knowledge of one\'s own body. Yes, now you can simply do this following test and find whether you are aware of this.


Now take a deep breath. Exhale the same slowly. Check with your pointing finger taking it near to your nose,  from which nostril the breathed air is coming out. From right or left nostril ? or from both side nostrils?



If the carbon is released through your right nostril then it is a good omen. When starting to do some thing new or when moving out of your home for some auspicious functions, check your breath is emitted from your right nostril. If it is from the left nostril or when the flow is from both nostrils then wait for few minutes to continue. The best timing for having sex with your partner is while the emission is from your right side nostril.



When the emission of carbon is from your left nostril, then it is the best time for you to start your activities. Also while planning for a child and having sex see that the carbon emission is through your left nostril. If emitted from both nostrils or from the right one, then it is considered inauspicious.

This reading are by TRS Iyenger and have higher percentage of accuracy,
"Arrow can be shot only by pulling the thread backwards.Whenever Life pulls u back,dont worry,it is going to lead you to VICTORY."


excellent !!!

but i dont like discrimination between female /male child
its okay to have a male if u already have a female but trying for only male is narrow minded


I agree to each word you have written but i hope my this initiative will help someone needy...I hv seen couples having 5-6  daughters and still want to try another baby.....I hv given the views keeping just this factor in Mind
"Arrow can be shot only by pulling the thread backwards.Whenever Life pulls u back,dont worry,it is going to lead you to VICTORY."


its okay for such couples who miss a male kid at home but many narrow minds will use this to their advantage too

but i believe in karma and astrology.
one will have family according to his karma only


great info .. its important to exhale through right nostril for better results
if you wake up and feel that you are exhaling through wrong side, sleep on that side for few mins and other nostril will open up (unless you have cold)



normally u have no control on it but through proper pranayama and few methods like sleeping on one particular side for 5 minutes before leaving bed early in morning etc, one can control it