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GENERAL DISCUSSION => Leisure Lounge - General Topics => Love & Romance => Topic started by: Virinchi on June 26, 2011, 12:07:36 PM

Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: Virinchi on June 26, 2011, 12:07:36 PM
In this generation i\'ve seen many women enquiring about financial status of a guy before marrying or even thinking about loving him.

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If you verify his bank balance, job/business. family status, looks etc and then start a relation, then there wont be any love. It again a business.

Same applies to men who run after rich women.
Atleast many men run only after good looks.

Such couple will always live with financial calculations and transfer similar thoughts to next generations.

A person having 1 million will think of marrying another person with 2 million and their kids will try for 10 million and so on...

All this happening since past 2-3 generations has lead to current generation becoming completely money minded.
Even crime rate and divorce rate are more in this generation because of this mistake being repeatedly committed
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: orangeprince on June 26, 2011, 05:56:42 PM
Yes i have seen this happening.My own cousins asking me to find out guys from U.S working in software and they aren\'t interested guys who aren\'t in software or who are in tier II cities.
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: Shree on June 26, 2011, 06:10:59 PM
Yes Viranchi, quite true, financial considerations or read high job being a significant factor in many marriages.

Apart from money people are also focusing on outer appearance. That the guy has to be tall and handsome, or the girl has to beautiful and lovely.

Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: gauranggroups on June 26, 2011, 07:45:18 PM
Yeah Virinchi, You are absolutely right. Most of the cases, the parents used force their children to marry rich people only. But of late, the real sad thing in this is even the youngsters are also money minded in many cases. This\'ll setup the trend to the next generation also.
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: Varenya on June 26, 2011, 10:57:05 PM
every one(mostly women) demand a secured life, bank balance, independent lifestyle far away from in-laws, good looks and education etc but they never think what qualities do they have to deserve all these, and what can they offer from their side.

And more over they claim to be equal to men(such a hypocrites) and yet expect men to take care of everything
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: Srikanth on June 27, 2011, 04:28:37 PM
hypocracy is the only word i can say about such people.
If a guy is well settled, has a own house, own car and good income.. then women will just come and share his wealth and comforts , but not his problems.

such women dont deserve marriage. Let them be single for lifetime and let them realise what it takes to build a family
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: SaSirEkha on June 28, 2011, 09:06:40 PM
i think indian culture survived all these thousands of years only based on our family structure and marriage system.
But since past 2 generations, it started becoming commercial and now it has degraded to its worst level.

Crime rate is very high and frustration levels are rising easily for many due to this.

Atleast this generation should understand that only karma decides major events like marriage and should adjust and try to have harmony. Else system will totally collapse
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: pallavi on June 29, 2011, 06:49:56 PM
All those laws like 498A were made to give some protection to women from men who torture them, but many women are now misusing them against soft natured men too.

Its time to think for our law makers.. when a law is misused, it needs to be ammended
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: Sushma on June 30, 2011, 07:11:48 PM
that means our genes get effected by our thoughts and they are carried over to next generations

This implies that we\'re creating a dangerous society
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: JayTee on July 01, 2011, 08:13:46 AM
who is going to bell the cat?
laws will always be misused as long as wrong intended ppl exist in this world

we\'ve to clean them up first
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: Vaani on July 03, 2011, 06:46:18 PM
difference between europe and india is our marriage system and family structure.
even other religions like muslims and christians came here and adopted hindu systems like wearing bangles, toe rings etc after marriage etc.

europeans cannot survive as one country because of ego clashes and differences in cultures.

But indians with so many languages, religions, castes etc still are united because we share same system in all states, no matter what language we speak.

Now with these laws and western influence and italian mindless rule at delhi, we\'re losing our way and we may collapse by next generation.
we need to stop this slidefall now, else our next generation will not excuse us for leaving them with lot of wealth but no morals
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: Ranjana on July 04, 2011, 07:30:42 PM
good thread.
i think we should have a Facebook Like button or some button to rate good and useful threads
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: pallavi on July 10, 2011, 06:34:32 PM
good post vaani :)
@ranjana, we can link this in facebook manually if we like it
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: life9+ on July 24, 2011, 03:39:10 PM
comeon frnds jst chill... how can we forget its kalyug. this all will happen. whn we cant do charity at our home itself how can we blame others. :cool:
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: Varenya on July 25, 2011, 10:28:38 PM
what if i\'m already doing charity at home but still things dont change?
are we supposed to just adjust ourselves to kaliyug effects?
then whats difference between humans and animals
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: orangeprince on July 26, 2011, 12:04:37 PM
If we do charity would things change? I rather doubt as then what would happen to the word \"Karma\"? Kaliyug or whatever the only things we can do is be good and do good if you believe in Karma even if you don\'t whats wrong in living a rightful life.
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: Sushma on July 27, 2011, 11:06:17 PM
people have grown impatient and are not ready to face even minor karma effects
they immediately start looking for solutions or escapism
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: Aindrita Ray on August 07, 2011, 12:01:03 AM
well said sushma
it shows clearly when people are asked to do simple math and they just look for calculators in their mobile phone rather than use brain or use pen and paper.
everything is now instant !
instant food, instant love, instant life
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: Bhavani on July 18, 2012, 09:38:16 PM
this is good topic :thumbup:
people who judge others based on pluses / minuses happened to their lives ever since they met others, who blame others for their own fate but take credit of all good etc will suffer throughout their lives.

unfortunately many dont understand that money is a medium to achieve target, money is not a target and should not be one.
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: Sushma on March 17, 2013, 11:49:15 PM
when one expects some extra qualities and qualifications from their wannabe partner, they need to question themselves : do i have anything in me that makes me deserve a partner with those qualities ?

most don't
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: SaSirEkha on April 12, 2013, 10:44:20 AM
out of all the recent divorce/seperation cases i've seen, 100% of them married just by looking at spouse's money/physical attraction.
most of them are already seperated and also suffering from lack of love through any relation (even their kids)
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: .Seeker. on June 08, 2013, 04:58:27 PM
Sirf ek baat kehunga....Nari ek pariksha hai aur shadi ek sangharsh :P

Don't mind,just kidding....but afterall it's true...every man is scared of his wife and mother-in-law
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: SaSirEkha on June 14, 2013, 08:58:40 AM
today thats because of section 498A in IPC
but in general, men and women are not meant to live like friends.
both are made of different properties (purush and prakiti) and meant to unite only for creation

that is why animals dont have issues like humans.
female animal finds its partner in its mating season, has kids and then male leaves.
once kids start to walk and find food by themselves, mother too leaves.
they're real sanyasis
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: .Seeker. on June 14, 2013, 05:26:49 PM
I don't fully agree with that Sasirekha.

We've been afforded insight for a purpose....Creation is but one of many aspects of coming together of Purusha and Prakriti...the nourishment of creation requires the symbiosis of both.
Excess on one side disturbs the balance and that in my view is causes disharmony.

Previously women were treated as lesser than men...Then in the post suffragettes/feminist era the popular opinion and an onslaught of subliminal onslaught by media and whatnot...many of the menfolk have become fawning idiots.

Women have become fickle...men fawning idiots....and on and on it goes
Title: Commercial Relations / Marriages produce commercial children
Post by: LostSoul on July 14, 2013, 12:05:29 PM
well .
It all comes down to the upbringing of the children . If both the parents are commercial then the children also will be commercial only cause their upbringing is of that sort.
SO, If you want a successful child then I guess you need to give him the freedom to do what he wants from the start itself .