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GENERAL DISCUSSION => Leisure Lounge - General Topics => Love & Romance => Topic started by: ani85 on August 07, 2011, 01:04:43 PM

Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: ani85 on August 07, 2011, 01:04:43 PM
after a six years of relationship my fiancee left me for another women and that wasnt the only thing, he insulted me and torture mentally.

i have just a question in my mind .. does the the Karma of \" What goes around comes around\" really works???

does the people who leave thier parents for other women ever get the punishment ...

i am really confused ? if everything is destined ? it means the wrong deeds are already written and people should get punished for them ????

Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: ani85 on August 07, 2011, 01:05:53 PM
* Does the people who leave their partners for other women ever get punishment \"
Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: ani85 on August 07, 2011, 03:07:49 PM
Please help me get over with it..... please any one help me get over with it !
does God punish them!
Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: sonipravin on August 07, 2011, 05:20:21 PM
Dear ani85,

Who ever has wronged you will definitely suffer for his cnnscious will bite him but by having so much of negative thoughts in your mind you will burn out yourself. Why worry about him? After all he will pay for his deeds and get the fruits -- sweet or sour. By thinking about him and wanting him to suffer you are still attaching him to your thoughts and bring more pain on yourself. Time will heal you but the sooner you do the better and do not feel insulted at what he has done to you. At least he has gone away and you know it. What about those who live with their wives and move with other other women all their life? Would you liked that. Now at least you know the truth and you can fight and come up in life on your own. Remember HE is always with you.

I was once stuck up at 1 a.m. in the night some 11 Kms. away in Jorhat town with luggage. The bus drieer refused to take the bus into the city at that period and wanted to go by the byepass road of the city. No amount of pressurising him succeeded. So I got down with luggage. I looked around and it was absolutely lonely with not even a person on the road at that time. It started drizzling at that time. I walked into the city with the luggage and had walked only 199 steps when I found a very big petrol pump fully covered at the top. So I got relief from the rain. The very next moment in the middle of the a cycle riksha came with a passenger who alighted at that petrol pump and the next moment another bus came from the same city (Itanagar) from where I had come in an earlier bus, and entered the petrol pump for a refill. How kind can HE be. Sending 2 helps at a time.

I asked the Driver of the bus for a lift. He said the bus is fully packed and I could go the cycle riksha. I told him riksha will take more than an hour as I have to go some 8 kms. inside the town and in the rain I may get wet. So the driver asked me to board the bus if there is any space inside it. Indeed the bus was overcrowded but I did get a standing place in the bus just at the entrance. He drove the bus and dropped me at the required place with a smile and did not accept any money in return. I had only to walk 50 steps to my hotel.

So always believe in yourself and you will find HIM always guarding you and helping you out. This is only one of the many many episodes of my life which I have told you. I have always experienced HIM in all difficulties and every incident has something to tell us. Do not be weak. Realise your worth and get up and face the world and see how successful and happy you will be.

Pravin Kumar
Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: JayTee on August 07, 2011, 07:18:51 PM
your fiancee took your karma and gave you the result
later someone will take his karma and give him similar result

karma has results.
good or bad is only our perspective.
this seperation may be bad for you, but he may feel its good

later when he faces results, he may feel bad and someone else or you may feel good

god doesnt punish or bless anyone.
he just divides the karma and plans the results as events at certain timings in our life, which can be known through astrology
Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: ani85 on August 07, 2011, 07:46:49 PM
i might sound evil here ... asking for the punishment .... but you duno the background...

since past  years i gave him everything ... standing up with him at his thin and thick.... the women he is involve with now knows everything about us...

i know.... i too dont want to curse him ... but seeing my parents crying made me more sick ...

for the past six years hhe used me ... and when he thought he got someone else for him ... he left me without any notice or warning ....

i belong to a very conservative family... i dunno will i ever get married ? i am trying hard to forgive him ...

its not only about break up .// but the kind of the break up and the behavior ... i have those words in my ears now ...

he has asked me to return him a certain amount which i am not disclosing here... he told me that i have gifted you this much and i have spend this much on your during our relationshop and now you pay me a big money altogether .... (i.e. rs. 200,000)

i was devastated .... and believe me when i refuse to ... he said \" tum haram ka khane wali hoo, joan ja ke kahin mar jaoon\"

i promise him to pay an amount every month....

thats why i am asking God to punish him!
Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: ani85 on August 07, 2011, 07:49:38 PM
Dear Jaytee,

i didn\'t understand .. you meant i have done something wrong to someone that\'s why this happen to me ????
Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: JayTee on August 07, 2011, 08:00:58 PM
you got it right !
there\'s no cause without reason
similarly there\'s no good/bad result without karma

in this life you may feel that you were right and he was wrong.
in next life when he faces same situation, he wont remember what he did to you, so he too feels same

just accept life and move on
Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: ani85 on August 07, 2011, 08:21:01 PM
dear Jaytee

i have also consulted to an astrologer ... he told me that there is no love me my life ... be it parental, be it partners, siblings or friend ... that is something not written for me...

and thats kind of true... i have face this ... no relation stick to me longer... though i remain very much loyal to them ... i love humanity and i do welfare and charity works... and try not to hurt any human ...

so it is because i have done something in my previous live... now if i seek forgiveness what should i do ... or will this karma be with me for the whole of my life ...

wont i ever get love in my life????
Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: JayTee on August 07, 2011, 08:25:30 PM
ask this question in related section with your birth details
Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: sonipravin on August 07, 2011, 09:50:55 PM
Dear ani85,

Maybe it is in your karma to go through what you are going. Jay Tee has given you such a beautiful example and a simple one at that.

I give you another example. One person, who is now my Guruji\'s most ardent follower and disciple, came to my Gurudev some ten years back. His problem was his wife separated after 2/3 years of marriage and almost for next 12/13 years lived separately and this person went every month to finance her so that she is in no difficult situation moneywise even though this lady earned as a teacher. He went on many Teerth Yatras as per advise of many saints but ultimately he came to our Gurudev. I remember in my presence on a Thursday (My Gurudev always prays on Thursdays and perform puja of Dutta Bhagwan and answers all problems and questions of persons assembled there) he was tied with a huge rope to a chair in another room while puja as usual was performed in the usual Hall. After 2 hours this persons hands were untied. He came out smiling after the experience. My Guruji said \"Iska Bandhan Todna Hai\" It took my Gurudev 2 years to get him united with his wife.

This person, when young, knew this girl and despite knowing that she was not of good character married her. He went through all the above. She had one child through him and another one through another gentleman. Still she was welcomed back. When he asked my Guruji why this happened he was told this:

Bete some 400 years back this very girl was the daughter of your labourer head. She was young and you were a Zamindar. You raped her and now she has come back in this life to get even with you. This is what happens. No matter what we do we get our results sooner or later and the results depends upon our action now. If you have done good why bother. Leave it to HIM  and try your best.

Pravin Kumar
Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: ani85 on August 07, 2011, 10:48:24 PM
Thanks pravin,

Thank you so much ... whether there is love or no love in ma fate... i will keep loving people ... though because of my past experiences... i have seen people leaving me without any reasons... they keep on using me ... i might have done something wrong somewhere in past or may be in my previous life....

though i don\'t want to curse him ... but my six years were long enough i have given to him ... i know he will never come back ... though i know i can get him back ... but i don want to go against nature... you cant force someone to love you ...

as a women i just wanted to know will i get love in my life ever ... as i do love others.... will someone ever cares for me ... like i do for others....

may be this is my karma ...which haunted me in this relationship...

or may be God has saved me from a big disaster .... i am not Divorce at-least....

although i am trying to look at life from a different perspective... but  forgetting someone you were madly in love isn\'t as easy as said.

so from now onwards... i leave it to HIM ... i know he will reply to my queries and will give peace to my mind ....meanwhile i will ask for forgiveness!

i am thankful to you .... thanks for giving me a new direction ....
Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: Shree on August 08, 2011, 02:00:20 AM
Dear Ani,
Not sure if this will comfort you, but many of us go through a lot of difficulties in life and we are confused why  -- without doing anything bad to others, we have to face it. May be it was our Karma, from this birth or our previous birth, may be.
May be we could have done better in some of those situations we face in life.

The other person may or may not face such situations in his life, and all depends on what he has done. May be he will face it in this birth -- after some years, or may be in next birth.

But the important thing for you is to be courageous and be firm. Take legal recourse if required, if he demands money, or harasses you - now even court accepts a Live in relationship as a form of obligation etc. Dont allow him to harass you, and take your parents into confidence.

Keep praying to the almighty, in utmost faith, to free you from the suffering and he will listen.

Title: Karma " Whay goes around, comes around" ???
Post by: ani85 on August 08, 2011, 12:40:10 PM
Thank you shree ... thank you soo much ! :) ... at times even the kind words can change your mental status and ... i am rellay thankful to you all for giving me so much of emotional support!